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- One woman living in a “rich” neighborhood was used to the overwhelming crowds that came around Halloween
- Until one year, when her daughter broke her arm and couldn’t get help because the streets were overflowing with cars and trick-or-treaters
- That’s when she decided that change needed to happen
For many, Halloween is a nostalgic celebration – a night for laughter, costumes and community.
But for one homeowner, what began as a beloved neighborhood tradition turned into a chaotic, even dangerous, spectacle that forced her to take matters into her own hands.
“I live in a large neighborhood, about 90 houses. We are what’s considered the ‘rich’ neighborhood,” the Reddit user explained in a post. “So our neighborhood has always been a hotspot for trick or treaters.”
For years, the annual rush of costumed kids was a source of joy. “We used to get about 700 – 1000 kids a year,” she wrote. But recently, the situation spiraled out of control.
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“In the last four years, it’s gotten ridiculous,” she added. “There’s thousands of kids and their parents flooding the streets, people with hay in their rigs carrying kids around, trampling yards, littering candy wrappers everywhere.”
Her frustration reached a breaking point one Halloween night when the festivities turned into a nightmare.
“My daughter tripped and broke her arm… and there were so many people in our neighborhood, we couldn’t get out,” she recalled. “There were cars everywhere, lining the streets, parked in people’s yards, it was horrible. We had to wait until everyone left (about 1 am) to go to the hospital. My daughter had to wait in pain for HOURS.”
That moment, she said, changed everything. Concerned for safety and order, she and her neighbors took action.
“I contacted the neighborhood community and we managed to get some folks (cops mostly) to stand at the gate with a list and only let in certain people. (folks that live here, family members, friends),” she explained.
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As a result, only about 300 children were let into the neighborhood and there was barely any trash or congestion. However, not everyone agreed with the new restrictions.
When she told her sister about the plan, she was met with anger and disappointment. “She told me I was a horrible person for ruining thousands of kids’ Halloween,” the mother shared.
Her sister reminded her that as children, they often had to go to other neighborhoods to trick-or-treat because their trailer park “had no other kids.”
But for the Reddit user, safety and accessibility came first. “It was a hazard, if there was a fire or an emergency, no one would be able to get in to help.”
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Many commenters sided with the original poster, saying she made the right call to protect her family and ensure safety for everyone in the neighborhood.
“What if instead of a broken arm, your daughter (or anyone else who lived there or anyone who was just visiting the neighborhood for the festivities) had a heart attack, or a stroke, or an anaphylactic allergic reaction, or any number of other time-contingent medical emergency?” one user questioned. “Halloween in your neighborhood had become a health and safety hazard.”
Another emphasized that neighborhoods are not carnival grounds, adding, “If the number of people and vehicles obstruct essentially services then that’s beyond ridiculous.”
